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Sample Letter - This is a general purpose sample.  

Dear Anna,
   My name is John Doe. I received your name and address from datingpersonalsweb.com on the Internet. I liked your ad very much, and like you, I am also interested in art, music and travel. I hope we can get to know each other better. I am seeking friends from other cultures and would eventually like to find a loving, lifelong partner. I hope this letter will serve as an introduction to me and that you will be interested in corresponding and getting to know each other better.
   I am 45 years old and was born in Charlestown, West Virginia. I have 2 brothers and a sister. When I was 10 we moved to San Francisco, California where I live today. I went to college at UCLA where I received a degree in business. I now work for a company as a Senior Account Manager. In my spare time I enjoy photography, hiking, and relaxing at the beach. I have a 8 year old daughter from a previous marriage. I was divorced 4 years ago and she lives nearby with her mother. I have enclosed some postcards I made from my photographs. They show some of the places I like to go hiking, and parts of San Diego. I have also included a photo of myself - that's me with my dog, Wuff.
   I noticed that we had some of the same interests and would like to hear all about where you live, your job, your hobbies, and plans for the future. Please write me back and tell me more about you and your family. I would also enjoy any recent pictures of you and about where you live.
   I hope this will be the beginning of a long and lasting friendship. I look forward to your reply with great anticipation. My address is:

John Doe
2002 Franklin Ave.
San Francisco, Ca 90xxx
Sincerely Yours,
Phone # (744) 555-xxxx
e-mail: jdoe@aol.com

Making the Date
  • Plan a casual date—based on what both of you enjoy.
  • Make the first date a short one. This gives you an "out" in case the evening is a disaster.
  • Plan to meet at a neutral, public site where both will feel comfortable.
  • Be clear about the arrangements.
  • Drive separately; it’s a safety precaution for both.
  • Have some favorite activities in mind so that you can make suggestions and participate in the planning.
  • Until "who’s paying" is clarified, stick to affordable events or places. (Expecting a first date to pay for something expensive can lead to problems.)
  • Don’t include your children in the date.

Preparing for the Date

  • Consider what you and your date will be doing. What can you do ahead of time to make the event go well?
  • Have a contingency plan in mind. Perhaps the theater has lost your tickets, or the movie you’d planned to see is sold out. When you plan ahead you won’t be as likely to overreact and embarrass yourself. You will simply shift into phase two.
  • Ask your date-to-be about some of his or her hobbies, activities, and interests. Then, as a conversation starter you can discuss things they are most familiar with.
  • Read the paper or watch the evening news before going out. Be prepared to discuss some of the day’s current events.
  • Make a list of your positive attributes—not so that you can brag about them, but so that your awareness of them builds your confidence—which is attractive to others.
  • Do some activity earlier in the day to boost your self-confidence. For example: go for a run, swim, be with friends.
  • Plan how you can look your best.
  • Bring money and offer to pay for your share of any restaurant bill or entertainment tickets.

During the date

  • Smile
  • Be confident
  • Be friendly and warm
  • Call your date by his or her name
  • Compliment him or her
  • Give the other person plenty of opportunity to talk. Listen to what he or she is saying
  • Be natural
  • Be honest—act and say how you feel
  • Thank them for the date